Intimate Questions for Couples
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Intimacy and sex overlap, but they aren’t the same subject, and most question lists online can’t tell the difference. This collection is about the first one: closeness, affection, being known.
So the questions ask what your love language actually is — words, gifts, actions, being held, undivided attention. Which daily habit of yours makes your partner feel close even from another city. Name one gesture that says “I love you” as completely as the sentence does. What romance genuinely means to you, in specifics, not in the greetings-card sense. What you remember about your first kiss. Whether the strongest relationships really do grow out of friendship.
They’re warm rather than provocative, which makes them unusually safe to ask early in an evening or in the middle of a long car journey. Some do touch on desire — what you find attractive, when you feel most wanted — but the register stays affectionate throughout.
The most useful answers here are the most specific ones. “You’re romantic” tells your partner nothing. “When you text me from the shop to ask which one I want” tells them exactly what to keep doing.
This week’s picks
Three of the collection’s highest-rated questions, by votes and saves from people using the app. The three shown change every Monday.
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Name your top 3 sexual fantasies.
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What part of your love story makes you feel sad?
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Name one gesture or touch that equals the words "I love you."
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The full list
Ranked by how people using the app voted on them.
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What's something I do that turns you on, without me even realizing?
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Do you believe it’s possible to find love on social media or dating websites?
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Recall the most beautiful moment in your relationship over the past year.
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What attracted you to me?
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How can we improve our emotional intimacy?
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How do you feel when sharing your deepest feelings or secrets?
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What destroys love in most cases? Name the top 3 reasons relationships end, in your opinion.
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Have there been times when you felt the need to hide your true feelings from me? Why?
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How do you feel about open relationships or free love?
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What is one thing I do that still gives you betterflies?
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What is the most touching and happiest moment in your relationship?
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What joint adventure do you think we would both enjoy?
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How do you think your love for me has changed over time? Try to describe it at the beginning, in the middle, and now.
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What does my love feel like to you?
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What ideas about love and marriage did you inherit from your parents? Which ones came from society?
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What’s your best memory of your intimate life?
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Do you prefer hugging or kissing more?
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What was your favorite thing about the first time we had sex?
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What does emotional closeness in a relationship mean to you?
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How do you feel about role-playing games: for or against?
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What's a memory we made that still turns you on today?
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Tell me about your first kiss.
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If you could choose what I was wearing right now, what would you choose?
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What was the name of your first love? What do you remember about them?
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When do you feel most sexy?
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Is there a way I've touched you that you'll never forget?
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How do you define my sense of humor?
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What's something new you would like to try in bed?
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Would you rather have sex while blindfolded or handcuffed?
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Where's the riskiest place you've thought about hooking up?
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What's the dirtiest text you've ever wanted to send me but didn't?
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What's a moment when I was out in public and all you could think about was how badly you wanted to fuck me?
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Do you think we are turned on by the same things?
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Do you think romance is still present in our relationship? If not, what romantic gestures would you like from me?
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What do you consider cheating: a kiss, texting, drunken sex, or a side relationship?
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What's your primary love language? Has that changed over time?
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