What shared hobby could bring us even closer together?
A questions app for couples
5,000 questions worth asking each other tonight
DeepJoin shows you one question at a time. You read it out loud, and the conversation goes somewhere it would not have gone on its own.
Free for 3 days on the weekly plan. No account needed to start.
- 5,000+ questions
- 3 days free
- No account needed
- iPhone
- 18+
Real cards, not samples
These are the questions you will get
Every card below is one you will actually be dealt. Read them and decide whether this is a conversation you want to have.
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What shared hobby could bring us even closer together?
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Do you think our relationship has changed you as a person?
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What is the silliest thing you have cried about because of something I did — and never told me?
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What do I do that makes you feel insecure? How can I be better?
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What is something you want more of in our sex life?
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What, in your opinion, do we most need to work on? How do we do it?
By theme
Pick the evening, not the app
Each collection is a different kind of conversation. Every page lists the questions the app’s own users rated highest.
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Questions About Future Plans and Dreams
Questions about where this is going: the dream you gave up on, what you’d want to know about our future, what’s stopping you. For couples deciding things.
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Red Flag Game Questions
Red flag or not? Checking their phone, liking swimsuit photos, staying out of habit. A game that finds your boundaries faster than any serious talk.
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Questions for Couples
Thousands of questions for couples to ask each other, from childhood and habits to trust and the future. Pick one, read it out loud, see where it goes.
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Deep Questions to Ask
Deep questions with no autopilot answer — about fear, regret, change and what you’d do differently. For a partner, a close friend, or yourself.
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Deep Questions for Soulmates
Questions that only work with one person: what you admire and never said, what you’re afraid to ask, what you’d miss. For couples with real history.
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Late-Night Conversation Questions
Questions for the hour when nobody has anywhere to be — childhood, regret, what scares you, what you’d change. Best asked with the lights off.
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Long-Distance Relationship Questions
Questions to save a video call from “how was work, what did you eat” — about the distance, the rules that hold, and everything that isn’t distance.
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Questions for New Relationships
Questions for the first months together — values, habits, what a good evening looks like. Learn who someone is before you’re certain you know.
There are games, too: Truth or Dare The 36 Questions That Lead to Love Never Have I Ever Would You Rather All games
Who it is for
For couples together a month, and couples together ten years
Some questions open up a person you have just met. Others open up the person you have spent half your life beside. DeepJoin has both.
Years in
What has changed in me over the years?
For couples who have been together for many years
DeepJoin helps long-term couples discover new dimensions in their relationship, restore and deepen their connection.
- Helps better understand current partner's needs
- Enriching relationship with new emotions and experiences
- Questions that help share new dreams and plans for the future
- Discovering values that unite the couple
Early days
What does trust mean to you?
Start your relationship right with DeepJoin
DeepJoin helps new couples better understand each other by revealing values, dreams, and experiences.
- Discovering partner's values and dreams
- Creating a strong foundation for future relationship
- Quick transition from small talk to deep dialogues
- Building trust and mutual respect
Quick and Easy
How to Start Using DeepJoin
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Download the App
DeepJoin is available for iOS. Download now!
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Start Free Trial
3 days freeThe weekly plan starts with 3 free days, and they include every question and every collection.
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Explore Each Other
Deep conversations every dayDiscuss important topics, build trust and make your relationship even closer.
App Screens
Example questions
Privacy
Intimate questions deserve a quiet room
Each point below is written into the privacy policy you can read in full before answering anything.
Read the full privacy policy-
Registration is optional
Open the app and start reading. An account unlocks some features, but nothing forces you to make one.
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Your location stays yours
The app does not gather precise location data from your device at any point.
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Only anonymous statistics leave
What reaches external services is aggregated and anonymised, and it exists to fix crashes and improve the app.
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Built for adults
DeepJoin is for people 18 and over. Some collections are explicit, and we would rather say so here than surprise you.
Price
What it costs when the trial ends
The first 3 days on the weekly plan cost nothing and include every question and every collection.
$5.99
per month
The weekly plan is $3.99 per week. App Store prices vary by region. Manage or cancel in your Apple ID settings; cancel at least 24 hours before the trial ends and you are not charged.
Before you download
Questions about the questions
How many questions are there?
Over 5,000, sorted into collections by theme and mood. The more you rate, the closer the suggestions get to what you two actually want to talk about.
What do I get in the 3 free days?
All of it — every question and every collection, with nothing held back for the paid tier during the trial. The free days come with the weekly plan.
Is this safe to open with anyone?
DeepJoin is an 18+ app. Alongside questions about childhood and values there are collections about sex and desire, so pick your moment.
Does my partner need the app too?
No. One iPhone is enough. You read the question out loud and answer each other rather than the app, so there is no second account and no second device to set up.
Is there an Android version?
No. DeepJoin is iPhone only. There is no Android version, and we would rather not name a date we cannot yet keep.
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