Spicy Questions for Couples
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Spicy is a lower setting than explicit. These questions flirt, tease and ask about preferences, and they’re meant to be asked fully dressed — at a restaurant table, in the car, over text from two different offices. The point is anticipation, not instruction.
They cover what you like and what you’d rather skip, where you do and don’t want to be touched, the hottest thing your partner has ever said, what you’d want more of, and what you’re looking forward to afterwards. A few are the practical questions couples somehow never say out loud: how often you’d actually like this, which time of day you prefer, what puts you in the mood on an ordinary Tuesday.
Two rules make it go well. Be honest about preferences and generous about your partner — nobody is grading past performance here. And treat “skip” as a complete answer that needs no justification; the fastest way to end this conversation is to make someone defend a no.
Best somewhere slightly public, where you have to stop, or late on a night with no alarm set. If you want something more explicit than this, the app has a separate 18+ collection for it.
This week’s picks
Three of the collection’s highest-rated questions, by votes and saves from people using the app. The three shown change every Monday.
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What is the most touching and happiest moment in your relationship?
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Tell me about your first kiss.
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03
Have you ever had a sexual experience with a man/woman of easy virtue?
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The full list
Ranked by how people using the app voted on them.
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Name your top 3 sexual fantasies.
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What attracted you to me?
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Recall the most beautiful moment in your relationship over the past year.
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What's something new you would like to try in bed?
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What’s your best memory of your intimate life?
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Did you have a fantasy about your ideal husband/wife as a child? What was it like?
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What is one thing I do that still gives you betterflies?
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When do you feel most sexy?
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Where's the riskiest place you've thought about hooking up?
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Name one gesture or touch that equals the words "I love you."
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What's something I do that turns you on, without me even realizing?
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Can you share an experience where your openness improved our relationship?
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Would you rather have sex while blindfolded or handcuffed?
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What was your favorite thing about the first time we had sex?
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If I told you there was one thing I wanted you to do to me EVERY time we're in bed together, what do you think I would say?
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What is "taboo" for you in any relationship?
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What's a memory we made that still turns you on today?
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What is the coziest place on the planet for you?
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What reminds you of your loved one (a song, a dish, a scent)?
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Name your top 3 places where you'd like to make love.
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If I ever caught you masturbating, would you stop or would you finish?
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What wish would you like to fulfill next year?
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What joint adventure do you think we would both enjoy?
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If we were granted one wish together, but had to agree on it, what would we wish for?
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If I allowed you to do anything to me, what would you do?
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What intimate toy do you think could add some fire to our relationship?
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Imagine that the first time you laid eyes on your partner was while you were out at a party. Describe what would you say and do in order to seduce them.
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Does the thought of me masturbating turn you on?
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How do you feel about role-playing games: for or against?
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Right now at this very moment, as you get this question, what is your #1 desire?
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How long do you think foreplay should last before sex?
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Name at least 5 attributes of romance! What is romantic to you personally?
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Do you think our intimate closeness affects our relationship overall? How?
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Do you prefer hugging or kissing more?
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Do you have desires that you only fulfill in your imagination, without sharing them with me?
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Would you rather tie me up or be tied up?
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How do you non-verbally express that you love me?
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If we filmed a sex tape, what would you definitely want to be happening in it?
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Would you like us to try role-playing games, and if so, which roles would you choose?
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What is something we've never done before but you'd like to try next time?
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What life experience made you go: 'I can't believe this is happening right now!'?
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What's the hottest thing I've ever done?
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What are your secret wishes for our relationship that you haven’t spoken about yet?
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How do you feel about surprises in bed, and is there something you’d like to surprise me with?
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Do you have wishes or fantasies that you consider “forbidden”?
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Is there something in sex that you’ve always wanted to try but never dared to say?
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Sexting and spicy photos—yes or no?
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